His loss my gain

I thought the message of the poem "The Apparation" was one every teenage girl should read. We live in a society today in which women feel that their men feel so highly regarding them and they can never be replaced. However, in this poem, the woman approaches the situation with the attitude of "his loss my gain." I think this attitude should be applied to all girls when they break up with their boyfriends. They should have the attitude that they deserve better than that relationship anways. In the society in which we live, I feel like everyone is so concerned with what other's think about them, instead of how they think about themselves. If everyone could get a grasp of this idea, then the world would be such a better place for everyone. And the quicker they learn this, the better off women will be in the long run!